游戏的诱惑力究竟多大,我可以说就跟一样,一旦迷上了就无法自抜,做梦都在玩。
我家儿子也17岁,在市里一重点高中念高三,在读高一时,也在家里没日没夜地打游戏,就餐时间喊他吃饭,他还很不耐烦,有时还很冒火,为此我还专门请教过教育专家。孩子玩游戏很正常,但不去上学,问题就有点严重了。我曾经使用一招,儿子就不再玩游戏了。儿子初三时,通过自主招生考试,进入的重点学校,自己洋洋得意,并有骄傲情绪,有空余时间,就邀约同学一起打网络游戏,家长看在眼里,急在心里,反复给他说服教育,效果不好。记得在高一期末考试前的一天下午,因学校布置考场而放假,他们几个同学邀约在一起,在同学家里打网络游戏,同学家长打告诉了我,儿子回来后,一门心思在游戏上。我来到儿子房间,与他聊天,了解他的学习情况,到底有多少心思放在学习上?儿子告诉我,他会努力学习,半期考试没考好,主要是XXXXX,全是客观理由。我听了儿子说,他要好好学习,这可是我解决这一问题的突破口。期末考试成绩下来了,考试成绩在班上属于中偏上,但不拔尖,儿子还有点沾沾自喜。马上就要分文理科了,儿子选择理科,是该好好教育孩子了。一天上午,我发现孩子准备开电脑打游戏,我马上叫住了儿子,让他把最近一学期的表现写在纸上,拟出一个学习计划。儿子很快就写好了,并交给了我。我看了后,觉得还像那么回事,他也提到打游戏有瘾。这时,我让儿子在纸上写出打游戏的20条好处,他听我这么一说,耳根都红了。以为我是跟他开玩笑,磨磨蹭蹭半天不动笔,他说他写不出这么多好处。既然儿子写不出20条好处,我马上让儿子写出打游戏的20条坏处,儿子写得很认真,绞尽脑汁,终于写完了20条坏处。我让儿子把打游戏的20条坏处念给我听,他每念一条,我让他停顿,对照自己好好思考,该如何做?并用笔把如何做的方法写下来,当把20条念完时,用了一个多小时。我感觉到儿子的心情突然沉重起来,然后对我说,我以后再也不玩网游,我要好好学习,请家长监督我。不愧是懂事的孩子,能够知道父母的用心。从那以后到现在,儿子再也没有碰过网游,成绩也上升很快。儿子马上高考了,祝儿子在高考中旗开得胜,考入理想的学校!
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